Remember that? Remember when two people could hold wildly different opinions on… well,  anything … and still share a pint, pass the salt, or discuss the weather without descending into apocalyptic screaming or icy, soul-crushing silence? Seems like a quaint relic from a black-and-white sitcom, doesn’t it? Because somewhere along the line – probably around the time social media became our primary personality – we collectively decided that disagreeing wasn’t just a difference of perspective; it was a declaration of war. A moral failing. Proof positive the other person is either a monster, an idiot, or both. It’s exhausting. Utterly, bone-achingly exhausting. You can’t mention  anything  anymore without triggering the Spanish Inquisition of Opinions. Pineapple on pizza? That’s not a harmless topping preference, sunshine, that’s a character assassination! You either  get it  (and are therefore enlightened) or you’re a culinary Neanderthal whose taste buds deserve ex...

Let’s cut the corporate gaslighting and call it what it is: the daily commute is a soul-sucking, time-vampire, masquerading as a necessary evil. It’s not just “getting to work.” It’s an unpaid, mandatory purgatory wedged between our beds and our desks, stealing our lives hour by agonizing hour, and frankly, we’re all being taken for absolute mugs. Think about it. You roll out of bed, bleary-eyed, already dreading the gauntlet ahead. Is it the bumper-to-bumper crawl on the motorway, where you spend more time staring at the same brake lights than your own family photos? Is it the sweaty, armpit-adjacent hellscape of the 7:45am cattle car… sorry,  train ? Or perhaps the bus journey where every pothole feels like a personal insult to your spine? Whatever your flavour of torture, the result is the same: you arrive at work already knackered, stressed, and harbouring a simmering rage usually reserved for arch-villains. And you haven’t even logged on yet! They talk about the “work-life bal...

Ah, Hatyai. A small city in southern Thailand that has somehow become the mystic realm of backpackers, Instagram influencers, and wannabe world travelers. It’s the kind of place I used to think was merely a pit stop for those headed to other, more glamorous locales like Bangkok or Phuket. However, I now find myself bombarded with cheerful announcements and posts of “travelers” claiming they’ve discovered the profound essence of the world after achieving a grand pilgrimage to Hatyai. Seriously? One checklist of street food and a weekend getaway does not make you a traveler—let’s get real. For starters, let’s explore what our newly minted “travelers” have experienced. A convenient flight, or train ride from KL, a few hotel selfies, and the obligatory snapshots of food stalls exploding with vibrant colors seem to tick all the boxes in their self-imposed travel checklist. Sure, the street food looks scrumptious (I admit, Khao Mok Khai and Pad Thai is a delicious endorsement for Hatyai), bu...

Let’s talk about the elephant in the conference room, the one awkwardly wearing a name tag that says “Synergy” and holding a half-inflated balloon animal. I’m referring, of course, to the modern workplace’s peculiar obsession with mandatory “fun,” otherwise known as the Team Building Exercise. The very phrase, often uttered by HR with the forced enthusiasm of a game show host, sends a ripple of suppressed groans through the ranks. We know the drill. Calendars are cleared, deadlines are conveniently ignored, and we’re herded – pardon me,  invited  – to participate in activities that range from the mildly embarrassing to the utterly inane. All in the sacred name of “building bridges,” “fostering collaboration,” and “boosting morale.” But who, exactly, is this morale being boosted for? Is it the introvert sweating bullets at the prospect of sharing their “spirit animal” with Dave from Accounts Payable, whom they’ve successfully avoided for three years? Is it the veteran employee ...

We’ve turned authenticity into a performance. A full-time job. A brand strategy. Every scroll through our feeds bombards us with polished imperfection—the “candid” coffee spill (#Relatable!), the “unfiltered” rant about mental health (scripted, tagged, monetized), the “raw” morning face (bathed in golden-hour light). We chase this holy grail of “being real” while sweating over which vulnerability to package for consumption. The crushing irony? The more we perform authenticity, the less we actually  inhabit  it.  This curation isn’t accidental; it’s industrialized. Algorithms reward vulnerability that fits neatly into marketable boxes—trauma with a hopeful arc, flaws that are endearing quirks, struggles resolved by the third slide. We edit our lives like documentaries: cutting the messy scenes, boosting the saturation on moments that fit the narrative, adding background music to mundane walks. We rehearse offhand remarks. We stage “spontaneous” laughter. We filter our real...